7 Kinky And Risqué Ways For Couples To Have Fun At The Beach (Try Them At Your Own Risk!)

When it’s just you and your man spending a day at the beach, sometimes the typical sand castle building or Frisbee tossing can get a little boring.

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If you’re feeling like taking a risk and having a little raunchy fun, why not try one of these 7 ideas that will really change your idea of “fun in the sun”!

1. Make Some Waves

We’re not talking about body surfing or jumping over the waves – go out a little past the breakers and do what comes naturally!

As long as you’re a tiny bit discreet, you can even get away with it when there are other people on the beach. The “motion of the ocean” adds a unique sensation to your natural rhythms.

2. Go “Commando”

There’s more to the beach of course, than just splashing about. If your plans include a trip to the shore for picnic or other event, consider going “commando” (without underclothes). It’s such a liberating feeling!

When your partner knows you’re “hanging loose” it can build up sexual tension; be prepared for some hot action when you get home!

3. Give Or Get A Massage

Some beaches have cabanas where they offer full body massages; if you see one available – do it! Being in the warm sun with the ocean breezes makes the massage even more relaxing than you’d have thought possible.

If there’s not a service available, you and your guy can give each other massages; awake your sense of smell too with a wonderful, tropical scented sun tan oil in place of a massage oil. You’re already nearly nude in your swimsuits – after a massage, you may be unable to resist taking off for a little bit of “Tip #1”!

4. Skinny Dipping!

Swimming in the nude is an exhilarating feeling. Not only is there the wonderful feeling of the water against your skin, it’s also quite liberating to be naked in the outdoors, especially if you’re with other people.

In fact, we spend so much time being covered up, that we often have an undeserved sense of shame about our bodies. When we loosen up and take it all off – especially around others who are also naked – we start to feel less shame about our bodies. Public nudity can make you feel sexier and surer of yourself.

5. Take Sexy Photos

A fun thing to do on the beach is to take revealing pictures of each other. It doesn’t even matter if other people are around, you can be fairly discreet about it. Part of what makes it so much fun is that you’re being sensual in public. A bit of breast exposure or a shot of your man’s package exposed through the leg of his shorts is all it takes if you aren’t ready for showing it all off.

The idea is to show off how sexy you are – it helps you feel more self-assured about your own sexuality – especially when it draws the attention of the opposite sex. Being sure of yourself makes you sexier to your man.

6. Nipple Slips And Tiny Shorts

If you’re wearing a tiny bikini on the beach, try a little “nipple slip” when coming out of the water; it can be extremely exciting to your man, especially if other people see it. When you lay on the beach, triangle tops can be pushed out of the way for a sexy semi-topless cuddle on the beach blanket.

Having others see your body is a big turn on that boosts your own confidence, making you more desirable to your partner.

If there’s an outdoor bar or restaurant, try flashing the waiter (let your man know ahead of time!). It’s sexy, it’s fun and will turn you both on.

7. Have Sex Where You Can Be Seen

This is super exciting if you’re up for it. Until you’ve actually given it a try, you won’t really understand how much of a thrill it can be!

The idea here is to be slightly discreet, but know that someone could be watching; like the idea of having sex in the ocean we mentioned above. Maybe you could try under a blanket on the beach. If you prefer indoors, make love with a dim light on and the curtains wide open in the living room of your beach cottage. Or perhaps a lounge chair on the balcony of your ocean-side hotel!

Of course, some of the tips we’ve mentioned may seem a little much for some people – and that’s OK! You can always use these ideas as a starting point to find sexy things to do that YOU are comfortable with.