We have all had this situation occur in the past – You spot a guy whose good looks start to speed up your heart rate. At this point there is a lot of excitement building up in the chance meeting between you and a handsome new stranger that gives out the powerful and seductive allure of a new person entering your life.
A lot of women will simply say to just approach him, kick off a conversation and get the message across that you like him. However, more often than not, it is easier said than done, especially if you’re a bit shy or introverted.
Don’t worry though, as we have some great time-honored flirting tips that have been proven to work to help you attract a guy, and keep up his interest in you.
1. Use That Smile, Blush And Act Coyly
Most guys love it when a girl is happy and giving off positive vibes. They also especially love it when in conversation with a girl who smiles & laughs when she is talking with them.
So you will need to be warm, approachable, and come across as having a good time when you are talking to him. Keep smiling a lot and try and blush if he gives you a compliment. Do this and we give you our assurance that his heart will skip a couple of beats!
2. Always Compliment Him
Is there something you like about the guy? His clothes, or something he’s just done? Well, give him a compliment on that.
Guys love the fact that you’ve just noticed something good about them, and this is often the way to get them to have a flirty conversation.
3. Hold That Eye Contact
We can’t stress this tip enough! Always hold good eye contact when you are in conversation with the guy you like.
Just look deeply into his eyes and keep smiling as he talks to you. This will make most guys go weak at the knees for you.
4. Let Your Bold Body Language Talk For You
It’s impossible to flirt well if you don’t use a few basic body language techniques.
Some of the really important ones to use are eye contact (See above), as well as the use of open body language.
What do we mean by “open body language”? Well, this means things like not sitting there with your arms crossed, as well as sitting in such a way that your body is turned away from him.
5. Don’t Be Afraid To Touch Him
The simplest and most effective flirting tip we can give to any girl is to make sure that you touch the guy you’re trying to flirt with.
We’re not quite sure why but for whatever reason when you touch a guy on the arm, hand, leg, or chest, then it sends out a message saying, “I’m interested in you”.
A simple touch of the arm can be all that is needed to send out a strong flirting message.
6. Do That “Thing” With Your Hair
We don’t know why, so don’t ask us, but all guys just love great hair, and in particular, guys love it when you run your hands through your hair.
So, the next time you’re in the middle of a conversation with the guy you like, simply run your hands through your hair. This body language shows that you are confident (and guys like confident ladies), or you can just fold your hair back in behind your ears using your fingers to add a little touch of sexy cuteness.
Regardless of how you play around with your hair, it will make them more than a little in awe of you.
7. Just Aim To Be Yourself
We’ve probably been told a million times before by our friends to just be yourself when you’re out with someone you fancy, because it is one of the truest, as well as the most honest thing you can do.
You’ll find that, by being yourself, you are more likely to leave a much better as well as lasting impression on him.