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Nearly all women in the World have had that maddening feeling at some point, that when they’re talking they’re not really being listened to by the man in their life.
Most often it is not that the man in your life does not care about you, honestly it isn’t. Simply it’s that most men’s brains deal with information in a different way to a woman’s, and often this means your words simply get lost in translation.
However there’s no need to get stressed, as by following our top five expert tips you can communicate with your man in ways that will make sure he always pays full attention to you in future.
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1. Talk Loudly Enough
It’s a clinical fact that men simply do not hear as clearly as women do. This is partly the reason men like loud music, and big surround sound systems etc., whilst us women leave the room with aching ears.
When it comes down to it, men simply do not hear things as well as women do, so make sure that you speak up if you want your man to hear what you say.
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2. Watch The Tone Of Your Voice
Nobody likes to feel they are being reprimanded or told off for no reason at all, so when you need to make an important point then you should keep your voice calm and even, whilst you try and get your point across to your man.
If your man feels like you are attacking him or starting to blame him for something, he is likely to get defensive and you may find out that what started out as a conversation ends up as an argument.
So our point is that if you need him to listen to you then you need to be firm, but keep conversation friendly.
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3. Choose The Right Time To Speak
Sometimes we think we need to speak as soon as we have a thought or an idea. However, just remember that your partner may be right in the middle of something else just when you want to speak to him, it could be he’s watching a game that’s important to him, making dinner, or simply a bit sleepy, or working on some DIY project, or he might simply not be in the right frame of mind to talk to right now.
Use your feminine intuition to tell you whether it is the right time or not to talk to him. As well as this, if you begin to talk to him and you observe that he’s just not listening, ask him, “Is there a better time to talk?” However, don’t ever be sarcastic or stonewall him.
4. Talk Side By Side
When you need to broach a sticky subject that could potentially be a sticky issue to talk about, then try to avoid conversation face to face.
This is because by looking him in the eye he can feel threatened by you, and most men when confronted, instinctively switch into survival mode, and this can trigger a fight or flight reaction to your conversation.
So to make him feel him at ease, make a point of talking to him whilst you’re alongside him, such as walking side by side, or in the car driving, or just having dinner with him on the sofa.
5. Get Straight To The Point
A recent study published in the “NeuroImage” journal has shown that a man’s brain interprets other men’s voices as speech yet interprets a woman’s voice as being like music.
This explains why your man is able to easily focus when his friends are talking about some mindless ball game, yet he has to work really hard to concentrate on you when you’re telling him how bad your day’s been.
So to make sure that he hangs onto your every word, you need to make sure you get your point across to him as quickly as possible. Do this by grabbing his attention and use direct statements like “Here is why I am so upset” or “The bottom line is that it comes down to this.”
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