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There’s nothing worse than the feeling that your man might not be telling you the whole truth. Maybe he told you he was working late, but someone mentioned seeing him somewhere else – and now the specter of him with another woman is floating through your mind.
While cheating is usually the first thing that comes to mind when we suspect our partner of dishonesty, there are many other reasons for lying, and they aren’t always bad (maybe he’s planning a surprise!) But your man could also be hiding money problems, an addiction or another type of situation that you need to be aware of.
Because of that, we’ve talked with some experts on human behavior to help you learn to recognize when he may be hiding the truth from you:
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1. He Can’t Stop Fidgeting
Lying makes people feel uncomfortable, and it shows in their body language. He may play with his keys or blink too often – both examples of the kind of fidgeting behavior that goes along with lying. He may run his hands through his hair frequently, in an attempt to calm or sooth himself.
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2. He Avoids Personal Conversation
One of the great aspects of being in a relationship is the level of comfort you have that allows you share the more private details of your life. But your man keeps those details secret and doesn’t let you in to his inner thoughts.
While some men are truly uncomfortable sharing deep thoughts, liars use it as an excuse to avoid saying anything that may get their tall tales discovered.
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3. The Details Get Mixed Up
Telling a lie means the liar has to remember all the details of his story. Sooner or later, he’s bound to forget something he told you before and change a fact or say the wrong thing.
Keep your ears open for things he says that don’t make sense with the rest of his story.
4. He Frequently Accuses You Of Lying
There’s this psychological behavior known as projection. It’s a defense mechanism where a person sees their own flaws in someone else.
So if your partner is very suspicious of you and accuses you of lying all the time, it just might be because he’s doing it himself. He also may accuse you in an attempt to put you on the defensive and take the heat off of himself.
5. He Hesitates Before Answering
Does your man often hesitate before answering a simple question? If he repeats your questions back, or takes a long pause before answering, it may be because he’s trying to think up a good answer or make up an excuse.
6. You Notice A Change In His Personality
Has your happy, open-minded partner suddenly turned secretive and quiet? That just might be a sign that he’s feeling guilty and trying to keep something from you.
If you’ve seen changes, ask him straight up if there’s a problem. If he gets defensive or angry with you for asking, he’s very likely hiding something.
7. Shifty Eyes
Does your man have a hard time looking you in the eyes when he talks to you? Shifty eyes and looking away are often a sign of guilt. But be careful with this one – because they know shifty eyes look guilty, liars often make a point of looking you straight in the eyes as they spin their tales.
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