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When you are out on the town, have you ever noticed couples that seem to be perfect together? They share private jokes, gazing into each others’ eyes and have been that way for years!
How do they do it? What is their secret at maintaining a happy, wonderful relationship? Let’s take a look at some secrets that happy couples swear by:
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1. Spending Time Together
There is absolutely nothing as powerful as spending quality time together.
When couples make time to spend together, it reaffirms their commitment to each other. And by spending time together, it means no kids, no pets and no interruptions.
Also, sharing activities that both enjoy is priceless.
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2. Sweat The Small Stuff
Little things that couples do for each other (or do not) do speak volumes in a relationship.
Small gestures like opening a car door or complimenting each other should never go unnoticed. It’s the small things that make the biggest difference.
Research has shown that we need to incorporate 5 positive interactions just to negate that 1 negative interaction. So, stay positive in your relationship!
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3. Having an Open Dialogue
Sharing your feelings and listening to each other will bring couples closer together. While ears and lips are essential for communicating, a little stolen smooch here and there goes a long way too!
Communication is an unbelievably strong agent for bonding together.
Mistrust is one of the biggest relationship busters out there. Once trust has been broken or lost, there is very little hope in regaining it.
If you have something to say that might not go along well with your mate, you must get it off your chest, even if it’s something that involves criticizing; It is how you say it to him that can make a difference (in determining whether not the issue will be resolved or will it result in a “cold war” between the both of you).
We all have little quirks that irritate, so you need to decide whether it’s worth getting into or just accept it as part of your mate’s endearing qualities.
5. Scheduled Lovemaking
Some might feel that scheduling intimacy is just cold, actually it’s not. It sure beats having none at all! In the busy world we live in, sometimes this is the only way it’s gonna happen!
As the saying goes: “Use It or Lose It”, is truer than you might think. Testosterone levels will start dropping and eventually you will just not have any interest whatsoever.
Got Kids? Find a family member or friend that will take them for an evening. Don’t let your kids control your relationship.
6. Some Problems Can’t Be Solved
There will always be some issues that cannot be solved because you just can’t agree.
Instead of wasting valuable energy, “agree to disagree”. Try and find a compromising position that works for both of you.
All couples run into legitimate areas of disagreement. A happy relationship is built on working through these issues. Learn to compromise, change or decide if the entire issue is just not that important, let it go.
Laughter is one of the healthiest reactions humans have and should use regularly.
In a happy relationship, laughter should hold the top spot. Always keep a sense of humor within your relationship, as it plays a big part in a truly joyful matrimony.
Many Psychotherapists refer to laughter as “the Krazy Glue that keeps couples together”. Laughter is good for the sole, and if you can no longer laugh together, then the sole of your relationship is dead.
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