Are you ready to do something different to get your man in the mood tonight?
Most men love it when women talk dirty to them. Most sexual pleasure is in the mind, so dirty talking can really get him amped up! If you aren’t sure how to get started, these 10 tips can help you get him turned on and ready to go!
1. If You’re Feeling Horny, Tell Him About It – Explicitly
When you have sex, you usually have thoughts about what’s going on running through your mind. If you think something, say it out loud. For example, if you are thinking, “I want him to touch my breast,” tell him “Touch my breast, right now!”
Use whatever words you’re comfortable with – he’ll love being told what to do.
2. Imagine Him As A One Night Stand
Talking dirty in bed often is about opening up your imagination and sharing your fantasies.
Imagine that your man is a sexy coworker or some hot guy you met in a bar that you’ve started making out with while you were drunk. How would you feel having sex with someone you barely know, where you knew you could be completely uninhibited? Let those feelings out with your man and tell him about it.
3. Pretend That You’re Having An Affair With Him
One of the easiest ways to talk dirty is to imagine that you’re doing something you shouldn’t. How would it feel if you and he were sneaking around for an affair?
You could say something like “If I were having an affair with you, I’d get so hot just thinking about sneaking out to see you…” Add your own personal, sexy thoughts to the story.
4. Describe Your Dirty Thoughts
Do you want to drive your husband crazy with lust without even touching him?
Imagine you’ve been out to dinner or the movies. On the way home in the car, start telling him exactly what you’re going to do to him when you get home. Go into intimate details about how you’re going to unzip his pants, unbutton his shirt, where you’re going to touch him and how.
You may not make it home – don’t be surprised if he pulls over into a secluded spot for a quickie!
5. Moan Your Appreciation
If the idea of talking dirty still makes you a little nervous, that’s ok! You don’t always need to use words; you can still turn him on with your moans and gasps.
Making noises as he thrusts inside you are a great way to let him know he’s doing the right thing – and that feeds his ego and turns him on.
6. It Doesn’t Always Matter What You Say
Sometimes it’s more important how you say it. Whisper a few words directly into his ear – something simple like “I want you right now.” The breathless whisper, and your warm breath on his ear will make him rock hard almost immediately.
Combine it with a smoldering look and a bite on his earlobe, and he’ll be all yours.
7. Party In The Club
Public sex is a fantasy for a lot of men; and dance clubs are always sexy, sweaty fun.
While you’re having sex, you can talk to him about how hot it would be if you were doing it in the club. Tell him what you would do to him, and what he could do to you, if you were in a crowded nightclub and no one could see what was going on in your dark corner of the dance floor.
8. Avoid Trashy Talk
Unless you know that it turns your husband or boyfriend on, you should avoid the overly done fake moans and trash talk that you see in porn movies. Those extreme facial expressions and noises can actually turn him off instead of on.
9. Talk Crude If You’re Into That
Some people get really turned on by being calling each other things like “bitch” or “slut”, not everyone does.
If you are into it, try it with your man and see how he reacts. If he doesn’t respond or if he looks uncomfortable in any way, just let it go and use another sort of bedroom talk.
10. Talk About Your Sexy Past
Most couples have a few sexy memories in their history together – like that time they had sex in the ocean while there were people on the beach, or when the usher nearly caught them going at it in the back row of the theater.
The next time you’re feeling frisky, try getting him worked up by talking about one of those sexy memories and go into detail. Reliving those memories can be a real turn on for you both.