Free Love Quotes Ebook: Get 101 Of The Most Romantic Love Quotes And Sayings In This Ebook To Express Your Love For Him. Click/Tap Here To Download Now... >>
Weddings are easy, marriage is hard work. It’s one thing to walk down the aisle and say “I do,” but keeping your marriage alive year after year is a whole other ball of wax.
I’ve often heard it said that marriage is a 50/50 proposition, but I disagree. I think it’s 100/100! Both partners have to give 100% all the time. With effort from both of you, it’s possible to not only make your marriage last, but to make it thrive.
These are the 7 secrets we learned from people who have successful marriages:
Between busy schedules and long days, expressing love can fall by the wayside. We forget to compliment, to give gifts “just because,” to linger in our embrace. The things that say “I love you” seem to either not get said or not get through. This is a book about saying it-and hearing it-clearly. No gimmicks. No psychoanalyzing. Just learning to express love in your spouse’s language… Click/tap here to find out more on Amazon.com >>
1. Use Humor When Things Get Hard
An easy and effective way to strengthen the bond between you and your husband is to stop taking everything seriously. Instead of looking for insults or hidden meanings, think about what you can do to make each other smile.
When you dwell on the bad, no one is happy. Make each other laugh to create a happy, loving atmosphere.
With more than a million copies sold worldwide, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Click/tap here to find out more on Amazon.com >>
2. Tell Your Husband When He Does Good
It’s so easy to see the bad and criticize; but the good stuff often slides by unnoticed. When couples get into the habit of only seeing the negative, it creates a hostile environment in the home.
Instead, look for things your husband has done right – then tell him how much you appreciate it and how happy it made you feel. He’s much more likely to take out the garbage again if he feels appreciated for it.
This little book contains fill-in-the-blank lines describing some aspect of your affection for your beloved. Just complete each line and voilà: you have a uniquely personal gift your loved one will read again and again. Make it as mushy, racy, or witty as you choose! Click/tap here to find out more on Amazon.com >>
3. Be Kind to One Another
We sometimes forget the importance of simply being kind to our spouses, and how much that simple act can improve the quality of a relationship.
Greeting him with a smile when he comes home, saying “thank you” for the little things or doing some little chore that you know he hates to do – these are the small acts of kindness that make a marriage last.
4. Shake Up Your Routine
Life gets busy what with jobs, kids and obligations; it makes it easy to settle into a routine. While routines can be a great thing for making sure the important stuff gets done, routines also have a tendency to turn into a rut. And ruts are hard to get out of.
So make sure you don’t fall into a rut! Plan little surprises every so often – send the kids to the sitter and go out on a date; plan a weekend picnic at the park; or spend a weekend at a nearby hotel.
By planning a special occasion just for the two of you, your husband will feel loved and will know how important the marriage is to you.
5. Tell Him That You Love Him
As obvious as it might seem, there are many couples that forget how important it is to tell your feelings out loud.
They say that actions speak louder than words, but the truth is that the words are pretty darned important too. Never assume that he knows – tell him!
6. Always Be Encouraging
Even when things are going well, people need the occasional encouraging word. Being supportive of your spouse does much to bring the two of you closer together. You’ll both be happier if you motivate each other to succeed.
7. Create Moments Of Intimacy
It can be difficult to make time for intimacy in our rush and over-scheduled lives. But intimacy is such a vital part of a marriage, it must be a priority.
Simple things like holding hands while you watch a movie, hugs hello and kisses good-bye, and of course, making love, all help to make both partners feel respected and loved.
Make an effort to include time for intimacy by scheduling it on your calendar if you have to! Nothing else on your schedule should matter as much.
There are good times and bad times in every marriage. But you can multiply the good times by making just a few small changes in your relationship. Make the effort to keep conflict at a minimum, and you’ll be able to keep your marriage growing strong.
Limited Time Only: Download Your Free Love Quotes EBook:
With this one-sentence journal, couples can create a three-year time capsule of their relationship in the easiest way possible. Our Q&A a Day provides a question for every day of the year, with enough space for two people to jot down a one- or two-sentence response. Click/tap here to find out more on Amazon.com >>