No one can force someone to love them, there has to be some sort of chemistry there. But you can certainly help start a spark! And it’s not necessary to become someone that you aren’t; you just need to have a little understanding of men and what it is that makes them tick – and then use that to your advantage.
With these 5 tips, you’ll see just how simple it can be to get a man to connect with you, want you, desire you. You just have to know what they’re looking for!
1. Dress Attractively
We’ve said it many times: Men are very visually stimulated. Women who understand this are able to take advantage of the knowledge.
When you’re going to be around the man that you like, dress to impress – but dress appropriately. If you see him stealing glances at you throughout the night, you’ll know you’re on the right track.
2. Make Sure To Maintain Eye Contact
Have you ever met someone’s eyes with yours and just known there was a spark there?
The next time you talk to him, make sure that you look into his eyes while he speaks. Don’t give him a “creeper” stare, just let you eye contact go a second or two longer than normal and give a little smile if he’s returning the look.
He’ll feel like you’re really paying attention to his every word, which makes him feel important and will have him looking at you in a whole new light.
3. Be Pleasant & Smile Often
Men are suckers for a sweet smile. And being warm and easy to get along with is key for getting him to fall for you.
When you’re interested in a man and want him to fall for you, you have to behave in an attractive manner, and the fact is you catch more flies with honey. Laugh at his jokes, thank him for opening a door, be open to light flirtations.
Men like to impress women with their sense of humor and stories about their life. Letting him know that you enjoy his jokes and stories makes him feel good about himself, which in turn makes him feel good about YOU.
4. Reach Out And Touch Him
One way to show a man your tender side while still igniting that spark is to initiate plenty of casual, intimate touching. Men love a light touch from a woman’s hand.
While talking, reach out and place a hand on his hand or forearm; if it’s not too awkward, a hand on his knee. If you run into each other, give him a light hug, or a kiss on the cheek. If you’re out together, take his elbow when crossing the street.
Your touch is enough to light the fire inside of him; if he’s interested at all, you’ll definitely be fanning the flames!
5. Be Just A Little Hard To Get
This can be a little sticky, but once you’ve got a man’s attention, it can definitely work to get him to fall all the way in.
When you’re crushing on someone, you want to be with them all the time, obviously. But when you can’t be with them, it makes your longing for them even stronger; there’s truth to “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
Once you know that they guy you like is into you, make an effort to not be quite so easily available. You of course want to spend time with him, but you need to give him time apart from you too, to miss you and realize how much he really enjoys that time with you.
If you’ve got a guy that you’re interested in and you think that the feeling might be mutual, these 5 tips can work to help you turn that spark into a flame of passion. Just use what you know about men to turn the tide in your favor.